What problem have I created for you?
You have answered your own question by replying. Again.
But I do have one quick question before this train gets going and I lose signal in the subway tunnels heading out to Queens..
Do you have children?
If you do, I will hope this for you on this holiday season. That they pass away in your arms in the coming year or two. Hopefully on Christmas Eve but I think any day would be equally heart wrenching for a parent to lose their child. How unnatural burying a child is? For the parent to outlive their children?
Imagine all of those happy memories that could have been? All those birthdays and occasions? Maybe even grandchildren? To never happen. To fade into eternity as their little body goes slowly limp with the life slowly draining out of them. The spark of life leaving their eyes, creating a stoic vacancy and emptyness. All of that potential, all that could have been? And all you and your grieving wife and family are left with is a hollow and lifeless vessel of was and could have been. A piece of you too.
All that remains is you and your crying wife holding your child, as the last few twitches of life in their face and eyes is all there is.
Merry Christmas.